marlee grace

it’s hard to capture an entire being human in just a few paragraphs. with marlee, I found it even harder than usual. perhaps because she is so many things: a writer, a dancer, an artist, and a “shape maker.”

she has books on social media addiction and  “how to not always be working.” she teaches and does creative advising. she started out as a starving artist but has become a celebrated success. she dances alone in her home but has thousands of followers who watch on instagram. she has a podcast and a project called CENTER, “an experiment unfolding in space and time.”

she lives in a patriarchal, cisnormative, heterosexual-driven culture as a queer female artist constantly blurring the lines of the known and the unknown. she is not afraid to be many things and she is not afraid to share her truth in all of it.

here are her thoughts on spinning out and getting calm, sharing truth, grappling with doubt and living in joy, and using all of it to find your own “right size.”

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Some things we talk about…

  • how she stays present and manages anxiety, obsessive thinking

  • on being honest about who you are even when that means losing those who follow you

  • how quitting drinking has informed her work
  • her daily “marlee maintenance” plan

  • making what’s most important to who you are

“I want to connect with other people who feel what I feel. I want to feel less alone in general. people on earth often connect over what we are struggling with rather than what we are celebrating about ourselves. I want to surround myself with people who are celebrating the same way I am or who are growing the same way I am.”

not caring what other people think about me has been a deep lesson. the more success I have, the more wild fast choices I make, the more I really say what I think, the more I notice that people don’t like that. and that’s been a big lesson: not hiding and not staying small.”

the first step in going BEYOND

my personal musings, podcast updates, and latest events. plus access to the resource library. library includes a ten-part series, “who we might become,” with jesh de rox and a live q&a with lisa congdon. 

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daphne cohn