elena brower

such a tender, gorgeous conversation with elena. in her words and in her pauses, you feel the power of presence. you feel how different the world can be, how different the world is, when we arrive here. in this moment. this life.

elena brower is a mother, mentor, poet, artist, volunteer, bestselling author, and host of the Practice You podcast. she’s been teaching asana since 1999, practicing Zen meditation since 2020, and received the Buddhist Precepts from Roshi Joan Halifax at Upaya Zen Center in 2023. now a candidate for Buddhist chaplaincy, elena offers her time in hospice and penitentiary settings.

her weekly live yoga practices and meditations are featured on Glo; she offers retreats and workshops a few times a year, and her spoken-word poetry can be heard on Above & Beyond’s Flow State albums—for which she received an RIAA-certified Gold Record for her writing on “Don’t Leave.”

elena is the creator of several online courses, including Perceptive Parenting and Simplify, helping us reimagine our priorities so we can experience more meaning each day. her bestselling journals and books explore the seasons of life and the art of deep listening. her next book, Hold Nothing, will be published by Shambhala Publications in late 2025.

in this conversation we explore the nature of spiritual practice, love, presence, and self-remembering in challenging times. we talk about the role of respect in practice, the healing power of rewriting past memories, letting go of identity, and the sacredness of preparing for death as a soulful, grounded inquiry into how we live, love, and serve.

take your time with this conversation. let elena’s wisdom soak through until it becomes your wisdom.  allow her presence to bring you home. to bring you here.

Some things we explore…

respect as a practice: choosing respect isn’t passive acceptance—it’s a practice of radical empathy that keeps us connected to our capacity to serve.

relational healing and the power of rewriting the story: rewriting memory is not about denying what happened, but revealing the deeper truth of the love that was always there and unexpressed.

forgetting ourselves to know ourselves: letting go of identity (the “personal brand,” the role, the performance) allows space for the true self to emerge—the one untouched by conditioning.

the sacred ordinary: love, conflict, memory, meditation, breath—each becomes a doorway to the divine.

slowness as spiritual discipline: the slowing down in practice allows truth to emerge and self-protection to soften. and

intimacy through honesty: elena’s stories of family, love, and imperfection show how being real is the bridge to connection.

“respect, to me, is a heart-based urgency. it’s how i show up when i remember that every single interaction is sacred.”

“we can rewrite the story—not to pretend it didn’t happen, but to reveal the love that was hidden beneath the pain.”

“Zazen helps me forget who i think i am, so i can remember who i truly am. it’s how i prepare to die, and how i choose to live.”

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